On The Silly Side by Jimmy Del Ponte

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Every Memorial Day is special. This one is extra special because the world was rid of madman Osama Bin Laden. While we are enjoying parades (the largest one ever!) and cookouts and family gatherings this coming weekend, we will also remember all of the men and women who gave the ultimate sacrifice for their country. A friend of mine came up to my office at work and personally delivered a touching story to me. He is a Viet Nam vet and very active in the city’s veterans affairs. The story is sad, but it reminds us how war devastates families. As we are spending time with our friends and loved ones this weekend, and watching the parade with all our patriotism on display, let’s say a prayer. Let’s ask whoever our higher power is to someday put an end to war. All we are saying is give peace a chance. But until then, men and women will bravely pick up arms and leave their loved ones and their homes to defend our freedom as Americans. God bless all the United States Veterans all over the world, both living, and those who have passed on. Thank you for fighting for our beloved United States of America. I don’t know who wrote the following, but it is a very powerful and heartfelt story.

Things You Didn’t Do

Remember the day I borrowed your brand new car and I dented it?

I thought you’d kill me, but you didn’t.

And remember the time I dragged you to the beach and you said it would rain and it did?

I thought you’d say, “I told you so,” but you didn’t.

Do you remember the time I flirted with all the guys to make you jealous, and you were?

I thought you’d leave me, but you didn’t.

Do you remember the time I spilled strawberry pie all over your car rug?

I thought you would freak out, but you didn’t.

And remember the time I forgot to tell you that the dance was formal and you showed up in jeans?

I thought you’d drop me, but you didn’t.

Yes, there were lots of things you didn’t do, but you put up with me, and you loved me, and you     protected me.

There were lots of things I wanted to make up to you when you came back from the war.

But you didn’t.

Thank you to all the members of the many Veterans’ groups in Somerville. To them, every day is Memorial Day. They keep the spirit of those who fought for this country alive on a daily basis. As a proud American, I always say that you can’t have enough American flags on your car, house, golf cart, RV, jackets, or hats. Just look at the powerful and sacred symbol the flag is.

Our Veterans groups keep the memories of their fallen comrades alive every day of the year. Have a safe Memorial Day.